Episode 8: The Hidden Challenges of Moving Abroad

THE GOLDEN MOVE DIARY

9/15/2025

By the time I reached this point in my journey, I was already past the first fears I shared in Episode 3 and the little wins I celebrated in Episode 4. I had routines, some friends, and moments that made me proud. But what surprised me most wasn’t the things I expected to be hard, it was the hidden challenges no one had told me about.

The unexpected challenges I faced:

  • 🌍 Loneliness — even when surrounded by new people, I sometimes felt invisible.

  • 🛒 Everyday tasks — grocery shopping or filling out forms could leave me exhauste

  • 💬 Language barriers — small mistakes made me question my confidence.

  • 💸 Budget stress — not from big expenses, but the little things that added up.

  • 🌀 Homesickness — sneaking in when I least expected it.

It reminded me of those late-night doubts in Episode 3, the “what if’s” I couldn’t silence. But this time, they weren’t just thoughts. They were part of my daily reality.

What helped me get through:

  • Small routines → familiar habits (like a morning walk) gave me stability.

  • Budget reflections → writing down weekly expenses made me feel in control.

  • Journaling → putting my emotions on paper helped me process and stay grounded.

  • Checklists → breaking tasks into steps stopped me from feeling overwhelmed.

Looking back, I realized that these small tools became the bridge between the excitement of Episode 4’s little wins and the tougher realities that showed up in silence.

Reflection for you:

If you’re preparing for your move abroad, think beyond the obvious challenges. Packing and paperwork are one thing, but what about the moments when homesickness hits out of nowhere? Or when your confidence slips because of one awkward conversation?
How might you prepare for those hidden moments?

When I think about it now, I wish I had something more structured to lean on, not just my diary. That’s why I created my Moving Abroad Starter Guide: it combines clear checklists, budget reflection sheets, and daily journaling prompts, the exact tools that helped me during these hidden challenges.

👉 Download it today for just €8,99 and start your move abroad.